I've been newly diagnosed for 2 months now. But you know it's not as bad ad I thought. I have no symptoms yet. One of the things that helped me when i was told is this really cool film that i saw...Damaged Goods (living with HIV) - a friend of a friend loaned it to me. Cool film with really positive, honest HIV POS people with a great attitude to life. You got to check it out. I think the website you can go to is www.damagedgoodsfilm.com or see the trailer on Myspace www.myspace.com/damagedgoodsfilm.com.