Q: I am so frustrated with my doctor. It has got to the point that I’m afraid to tell her honestly about a lot of my symptoms because she has all but said I’m a hypochondriac. Do you have any advice for how I can get more help or understanding from this doctor, or find a better fit?

A: Sadly, a ProHealth survey of patients with chronic illness found 57% didn’t feel safe talking truthfully with their doctors. This lack of mutual confidence is a serious concern - with responsibility on both sides - but there are some important things you can try before deciding to call it quits. [more]